Grace In The Workplace

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Hey Bee Hey!

Let me tell you a story about our People Operations Manager and the Beekeeper she believed in.

Beekeeper was hired for a customer service role, but if we’re being honest, customer service was not her ministry.

Calls went unanswered.

Follow-ups were forgotten.

Deadlines slipped through the cracks like sand through open fingers.

But every time our People Ops Manager considered holding her accountable, she hesitated.

She knew Beekeeper’s story—a hard life, financial struggles, a family depending on her. And instead of addressing the performance issues head-on, she leaned into grace.

She gave her time.

She gave her space.

She gave her understanding.

And at first? It felt like the right thing to do. Because what kind of leader doesn’t care about their people?

But grace, when given without accountability, doesn’t uplift—it enables. Beekeeper got too comfortable. She stopped trying to improve. The team picked up her slack, but they weren’t happy about it. Customers started complaining. And leadership? They started questioning if People Ops was even doing their job.

What started as grace had turned into a crisis.

The emotional weight of leadership is real. Nobody wants to be the villain. Nobody wants to be the person who makes someone’s life harder. But when grace becomes avoidance, it stops being grace at all.

And here’s where it gets deeper—when leadership fails to hold standards, companies stop relying on leadership altogether.

This is why grace is disappearing from the workplace.

They replace low performers instead of coaching them.

They automate jobs instead of leading people.

They swap out compassion for cold efficiency.

Because when accountability becomes a liability, humans become a risk.

And now, grace has a new name in the workplace:

HR calls it progressive discipline.

Managers call it performance management.

Leaders call it flexibility.

But when it’s overextended? Employees call it favoritism.

And when it’s removed? Executives call it justification for automation.

Because grace was never supposed to be a loophole. It was meant to be a pause for correction, not a pass for complacency.

Benefit of the doubt should be a bridge, not a trap.

So what do we do with this?

We teach leaders how to hold space and standards at the same time. Because the future of work isn’t about less grace. It’s about better grace.

Grace that corrects, not just comforts.

Grace that empowers, not just excuses.

Grace that keeps humans in the room.

Because when grace leaves, humans go right along with it.

Love, peace & honey,

AdminCyn